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The Hot Seat During The Lunar New Year

As a Chinese-American therapist, I see many second-generation Chinese-American clients and interracial couples who seek support in navigating the Chinese culture and family dynamics. Well, the Lunar New Year is almost here, and I thought I would make a light-hearted and informative post about an aspect of our culture during this important time of the… Read More ›

Ultimate Guide: How to Recover From a Broken Relationship?

How did you recover from your broken relationship? Heartbreak is one of the worst feelings out there. An immeasurable amount of sonnets, play songs, and poems have been written over a broken relationship. Broken Heart Syndrome affects one in every 100 people who die of myocardial infarction, or heart failure. With such scary statistics, it… Read More ›

If You Want Your Relationship To Last, Break This Habit

Most of us enter into relationships with the hopes that they will last. We find the person we want to be with and want to hold on to them. There is one very common relationship pattern that can be detrimental to the future of a relationship—relying on a partner too much.  Yes, you may be… Read More ›

How long should it take to get over a divorce?

The other day someone asked me how long it should take to get over their divorce? While I would have loved to give them a simple answer, it is not that cut and dry. The truth is it will take—as long as it takes. Every situation is different. Divorce itself, even if you and your… Read More ›

Surviving Valentine’s Day Post-Divorce

The day of love is here, but you aren’t feeling it. You recently got divorced and want to forget this day even exists. And maybe that is what you do, maybe you distract yourself with something else. Valentine’s Day can be a hard day for anyone not in a relationship but especially for someone who… Read More ›